How to make money go into your own hands?
In order for money to go into your own hands, and this happens all the time, you must be ready to accept it. Ready internally.
If you are not ready for money, then even having come once, they will not stay, they will quickly be wasted, and again you will be left with nothing.
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I don’t know how efficient it is, but I’ve somehow got used to giving money with my right hand and taking with my left. It is also worth putting them in a wallet normally like in a bank. Well, the last piece of advice to part is simple and not forced.